They argue that at this point, we just don't know whether emotional pain in the wake of death allows you to come to terms with your loss, or if you can be just fine without it.

他们认为在丧亲之后，我们并不清楚死亡带来情绪痛苦是让你不得不忍受失去亲人的折磨，还是你能够坦然面对。

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Perhaps, at the point of death, he might be aware of his loss... But he was not aware, for instance, that the diary had been destroyed until he forced the truth out of Lucius Malfoy.

也许在临死时，他才会感觉到损失……像那本日记被毁的时候他就没有察觉，后来才从卢修斯·马尔福口中逼问出来。

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